Hey boo,
How's it going?
I forgot that I wanted to tell you my idea so I don't forget...
So, remember how we used to have Mommy-Daddy Date Days, where we would send the kids to school, but take a vacation day from work. That way we didn't have to worry about getting a sitter, but still get time with just us, away from the kids.
Anyways, I NEVER get one-on-one time with any of the kids. And that's not fair to them. I feel like I'm always telling someone to "hang on" or "wait a minute" because I'm changing someone else's diaper, or comforting someone because they got hurt, or who knows what else.
It's not fair to me either. I love our babies and I want focused time with each one. I hate always being scatterbrained and rushed, and my attention divided in 3 different directions... I feel like I'm missing out on these precious days of baby-hood and toddler-hood.
So, I decided I'm going to do some Mommy-Kid Date Days this spring.
Hopefully by the time May roles around, I'll still have enough vacation time left... But I'll take a whole week off (so 3 days), and each day I will keep one kid OUT of daycare, but still send the other 2 TO daycare. And then I will have 1 whole day focused on that baby!
Sounds like a good plan, right?
My only concern is the girls. They NEVER have time apart. I think it might be a freak-out situation when I leave one at daycare and bring the other one home with me... I'll have to think about the logistics of that whole thing soon.
I figured I'd do it in May when it's warmer out, because then we could do something fun. Our kick-ass neighbors got our family a zoo membership for Christmas. So I was thinking I could bring each kid to the zoo, since we can go as often as we want. I might get sick of the zoo, but I think the kids will love it. And I'd hope they like spending time with me too!
So yeah, remind me that I'm going to do this. And I need to figure out how many vacation days I have left!
Ok, hearts!
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